The proper setting of the table surely will make your guest feel royally welcomed! While decoration should be suited to the occasion, the china and silverware settlement remind always in the traditional table order.
Place it in the order of its use, from the outside in, from the first course to the main course. Your guests will feel comfortable if you arrange the silverware properly – you don't want them to have to look around to figure out which fork to use. To make it simpler, don't put out utensils that won't be used. Forks should be placed to the left of the plate, knives and spoons to the right. The only exception to this is a small cocktail fork, which goes on the outermost right side of the plate. Place knives with their cutting edge towards the plate. All of the utensil handles should line up. If possible, you'll want to remove the used utensils after each course so your guests can start with a clean slate. The napkin should go to the left of the forks. When serving bread or rolls, place a butter plate above the forks to the left of the plate and include a butter knife or spreader. If you serve dessert, the silverware should be placed above the plate with the fork handle to the left and the spoon or knife handle to the right (the cutting edge should face down). Or you may just want to bring out dessert silverware with the dessert.Dress up your place settings with personalized napkin rings. You can use wildly your imagination- anything from - blade of fresh flowers, silk or hempen ribbon to traditional napkin rings.Wine glasses should be placed above the knives in a straight row, slanting downward from the upper left, going from biggest to smallest. You don't want the smaller glasses hidden behind the larger ones. An example would be a water goblet in back, wine glass, and then a dessert wine glass closest to your guest.
And if you're not having wine, replace the wine glasses with iced tea glasses, tumblers for water, or mugs for beer. If you plan to serve coffee with the meal, place the cup and saucer to the right of the setting, with the coffee spoon on the right side of the saucer. Otherwise, bring the coffee out with dessert. Though a well set table is impressive, the most important thing to remember is that the table setting can put your guests at ease. This allows everyone to concentrate on good food and good conversation, which is what a dinner party is really for.
Decorating the table is an art and it is a great fun,when once the tradition is adopted! Enjoy your meal !